Military Divorce

Specialist family lawyers to the armed forces 

Specialist military divorce lawyer Wiltshire

Why you should consider Goughs?

At Goughs we have considerable experience in dealing with legal issues arising from the breakdown of relationships involving serving or former military personnel, their families, reservists, and current or former Ministry of Defence personnel. 

Our commitment to the armed forces

As part of our commitment to the Armed Forces community, we offer all members of the armed forces and veterans, spouses, reservists and MOD personnel:

An initial appointment free of charge

Face-to-face, by video call or by telephone, at a date and time convenient to you.

A discount of 10%​

On all Goughs’ fees for work done on your behalf​

Fixed fees​

For some areas of work​

Complete transparency​

As well as full clarity on all our fees​

Don't risk your
hard earned pension

Your specialist pension solicitor since 1882

Getting divorced when in
the armed forces - FAQs

With British Forces stationed around the world (and of course serving at sea), this may be a real concern. Separation from family and friends can create a challenge to marriages and other relationships, and if things do become difficult you may also feel you don’t have anyone on hand to provide advice and support.

Fortunately, at Goughs we have plenty of experience in advising and acting for people spread around the globe. Many of our clients tell us that they find us invaluable as a listening ear and moral support, as well as their expert legal adviser. And, of course, they will need access to advice from a solicitor practising English law, as in family law matters it’s very likely that English law will apply to their situation.

It is vital to take advice from an English solicitor urgently if you have a family law problem abroad, because there’s a possibility that another legal jurisdiction (perhaps the country in which you’re stationed) may also have the power to deal with the situation, which may not be to your advantage.

When we can’t meet you face to face, our lawyers are very comfortable dealing with their clients by video call, telephone and email, and have extensive experience in doing just that.

We all have a few clients who we’ve never even met, because they are based some distance from our offices in Wiltshire – but that doesn’t prevent us from being with them every step of the way.

So, don’t feel you’ve got nowhere to turn. Get in touch with Goughs. And if you do return to the UK, come and see us – it’s always great to meet face-to-face.

It is not uncommon for the value of a spouse’s Armed Forces Pension Scheme (AFPS) fund to be the largest matrimonial asset.  How then should it be treated by the parties when trying to achieve a fair financial settlement?  The main options currently available are:

  1. Offsetting.  This is where the value of the pension fund is offset either in full or in part against the value of other matrimonial assets.  In a simple case, for example, the AFPS member might preserve a greater share of his or her pension in return for their spouse having a greater share of other assets.
  1. Pension Attachment (often referred to as earmarking).  This provides either a future lump sum or an income stream for the AFPS member’s spouse.  
  1. Pension Sharing.  The ex-spouse receives a pension credit and, in effect, becomes a member of the scheme.  This enables a clean break and provides good benefits at retirement, including the ability to take the pension income early (subject to scheme approval, reductions, and the minimum pension age). 

As there are many options and many variables, we may recommend advice is taken from a specialist actuary or pension advisor.

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Chambers & Partners

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Adept at handling complex divorce proceedings and related financial disputes. Regularly assists with challenging private law children cases. Offers further experience in negotiating pre-nuptial and cohabitation agreements.


Legal 500

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Goughs is a strong team that has strength and depth in its family law department. They are known for achieving good client outcomes and their good client care.


Russell Fitch

Great service

Great service, professional, great communication and handled what was a very sensitive situation with care and compassion.



Very calm and clear

My lawyer was very calm and clear and she put me at ease during a very stressful time. The outcome was exactly as I'd hoped.



Highly satisfactory

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Your armed forces family law team

Matthew Drew

Managing Partner & Finance Partner

As an experienced lawyer in the Family Department, Matthew specialises in complex, high-value financial cases following on from divorce and separation. Matthew also has a great deal of experience in private law Children Act cases.

Mark Hood

Solicitor & Head of Armed Forces

Mark completed a twenty-year Army career in the Royal Logistic Corps as an officer before changing tack to pursue a career in the law. Mark has a particular interest in, and an understanding of the effect that life in the military has when facing relationship upheaval or other related family law problems.

Heidi Cardoza

Associate Solicitor

Heidi is an experienced family solicitor advising clients on all areas of family law. She advocates a non-confrontational approach to divorce, separation, and other family matters where possible.

Georgina Catlin


Georgina has been practicing Family Law for over four years, qualifying as a Solicitor in 2018, and joining Goughs in 2019. Over the years she has developed a strong ability to empathise with others whilst also delivering firm and clear advice to clients to ensure their best interests are protected.

Why work
with Goughs?

Local since 1882, with an excellent reputation

First-class, effective service

Largest solicitors in Wiltshire

Seven offices throughout the county

Nationally accredited law firm

Recognised by Legal 500 and Chambers & Partners

Related Pages

Our armed forces sector

To understand more about how and why Goughs truly are the experts when it comes to offering legal expertise to those in the armed forces, head to our specialisms page. 

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