Children Matters

Legal services for matters relating to children arrangements and children in a separation or divorce

Legal services for matters relating to children arrangements and children in a separation or divorce

Taking care of your children during divorce

If you are separating or divorcing, there is bound to be an impact on all children within your family unit. As a parent, you will wish to put the welfare of your children at the top of your agenda.

As such, most parents are able to reach an agreement between themselves over the arrangement for the children. If not, we are here to support and guide you.

The Goughs approach to children arrangements

At Goughs we understand that a whole range of emotional and practical issues, for both parents and children, come into play when family dynamics are changing. Fortunately, we deal with these issues every day by supporting and advising our clients, and can help you find the best way to make sense of your situation.

Your child’s welfare is your top priority. We make it ours too.

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The advice here might sound obvious, but it really is worth bearing in mind to minimise any disruption to children, during what is bound to be a turbulent and emotional time for everyone involved. 

  1. Co-Parent – wherever possible it is important that both parents appear to be on the same page for all matters related to  your children. Communication and consultation are key.
  2. Keep arguments away – whilst emotions are running high it is very easy to lose sight of this. Children exposed to arguments in the home are bound to feel much more stress than those in a peaceful environment. Children benefit from having a positive view of each parent.
  3. Reduce your stress – take time for yourself and do what you need to reduce your stress levels. This will ultimately rub off on your children and help to maintain a happier and calmer household. 
  4. Maintain routines – both adults and children alike need routine to help us function so where possible, keep your children’s routines as regular as they were before the relationship breakdown. 

For more advice from a dedicated children lawyer, please get in touch with the team at Goughs.

The only reason you may need to go to court is where the parents really can’t agree on how to share care of the children. Before court proceedings, however, we would usually try mediation.

The amount of contact you are likely to get will depend wholly on your circumstances and what both parents want, alongside of course, what is in the best interests of the children. 

We’d go so far as to say that, for most people, Court proceedings should be a last resort, but if necessary we can guide you through the process of applying for a Child Arrangements Order, a Prohibited Steps Order or a Specific Issue Order.

There’s no substitute for specific expert advice tailored to you and your family, but the following summary of the core principles of the law relating to children may be useful. Although these principles repeatedly mention the Court, the majority of cases dealing with children never go to Court:

– The child’s welfare is paramount in deciding all questions about his/her upbringing and property.

– Delay in deciding any question with respect to the child’s upbringing is likely to prejudice the child’s welfare.

– The Court should not make any Order unless to do so is considered better for the child than making no Order.

– The Court should, when applying the first principle  above, pay particular regard to the following:-

  • The ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned (considered in the light of his/her age and understanding)
  • His/her physical and emotional and educational needs
  • The likely effect on him/her of any change in his/her circumstances
  • His/her age, sex, background and any other characteristics which the Court consider relevant
  • Any harm which he/she has suffered or is at risk of suffering
  • How capable each of his/her parents, and any other person in relation to whom the Court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting his/her needs
  • The range of powers available to the Court under the Children Act in the proceedings in question

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Your family law and children team

Juliet Gordon


Juliet qualified in 2018, and joined Goughs in April 2022. She always strives to provide calm, empathetic advice, and prioritises ensuring that her clients are updated throughout the process, aiming to exceed their expectations.

Amelia Inglis

Trainee Solicitor

Amelia joined Goughs in September 2021 as a Trainee Solicitor in the Family department, having worked as a property paralegal for three years. She has now completed her first training seat, and has begun her second seat within the Private Client department.

Eleanor Wood

Senior Associate

Eleanor has invaluable experience in a wide range of children's matters, matrimonial matters (including divorce & separation), cohabitation agreements, pre & post nuptial agreements, and the division of matrimonial finances.

Rhianna Cole

Senior Associate

Rhianna has over 11 years of experience as a Family Law specialist and greatly enjoys the different aspects and challenges of this area of law. Having joined Goughs in 2013, Rhianna progressed to Associate level before becoming a Senior Associate in 2020.

Mark Hood

Solicitor & Head of Armed Forces Sector

Mark completed a twenty-year Army career in the Royal Logistic Corps as an officer before changing tack to pursue a career in the law. Mark has a particular interest in, and an understanding of the effect that life in the military has when facing relationship upheaval or other related family law problems.

Georgina Catlin

Associate Solicitor

Georgina has been practicing Family Law for over four years, qualifying as a Solicitor in 2018, and joining Goughs in 2019. Over the years she has developed a strong ability to empathise with others whilst also delivering firm and clear advice to clients to ensure their best interests are protected.

Natalie Kemp

Senior Associate Chartered Legal Executive

Natalie joined Goughs in 2019 and progressed to an Associate in 2020. She is experienced in dealing with all areas of family law, including children, divorce, separation, finances, cohabitation, and separation agreements together with pre and post nuptial agreements.

Alice Blackmore

Associate Solicitor

Alice joined Goughs in January 2020 and was promoted to Associate in April 2021. She is experienced in dealing with all areas of family law including disputes involving children, divorce, separation, finances, and cohabitation.


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